The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. It’s an opportunity to talk about doubts and fears you have conquered. To discuss your struggles and triumphs and to offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling.
June 1 question – When the going gets tough writing the story, how do you keep yourself writing to the end? If have not started the writing yet, why do you think that is and what do you think could help you find your groove and start?
External deadlines. Plain and simple, that’s the only way I’ve ever managed to tough it out. And seriously, whenever anyone suggests that I tough anything out, what I hear is Billy Ocean singing that song, and I want to give him a smack.
My reaction may be because the only reasons why writing gets tough for me is that either I’m struggling with my mental health, or with lack of time. I have an (almost) full-time administration job which pays the bills, and a part-time life coaching job which feeds the soul and will – hopefully, one day – also pay the bills instead of the admin job. There’s the usual family stuff, a blogging and photography hobby, and you have me in a time crunch. When I try to cut out the extraneous hobbies, it impacts in a negative way on my mental health. So, I’m never going to tough it out without an external deadline.
With an external deadline, what I find helps to keep the story moving along is to go to bed at night with the intention of dreaming about it. Even if I hit a troublesome spot and don’t know how to resolve it, my dreams have (so far) provided the answer. It does mean I have to be living the story in a pretty high intensity manner and writing for long periods every day – but that’s what works for me.
I’d love to learn what methods you use to tough it out – hit me up my fellow writers!
© Debra Carey, 2022